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	<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:25:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Free Urban Decay Cosmetics Eye Pencils</title>
		<link>http://parentofteenagers.today.com/2009/10/07/free-urban-decay-cosmetics-eye-pencils/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:25:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Has your teen joined TeenFreeway yet? What are they waiting for? TeenFreeway offers great freebies geared towards teens. There is even a section for guys!
Right now your teen can register to be one of five lucky winner of Urban Decay Cosmetics eye pencils. Want to know more? Click on the image below and be on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Has your teen joined TeenFreeway yet? What are they waiting for? TeenFreeway offers great freebies geared towards teens. There is even a section for guys!</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Right now your teen can register to be one of five lucky winner of Urban Decay Cosmetics eye pencils. Want to know more? Click on the image below and be on your way.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center"><a href="http://www.teenfreeway.com/special_promos/eyepencils/index.htm" target="_blank"><img src="http://parentofteenagers.today.com/files/2009/10/picture-3.png" alt="TeenFreeway eye pencils" width="360" height="197" /></a></p>
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		<title>Free Organic Soap on 9/24</title>
		<link>http://parentofteenagers.today.com/2009/09/18/free-organic-soap-on-924/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 15:07:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		
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Here is another great offer from TeenFreeway. Just click on the image above and fill out the form. You need to become a fan of TeenFreeway on Facebook, too. Then check your Facebook updates on September 24th for the link to your free organic soap! Super simple&#8230; Enjoy!
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<p style="0px 0px 16px; font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Here is another great offer from TeenFreeway. Just click on the image above and fill out the form. You need to become a fan of TeenFreeway on Facebook, too. Then check your Facebook updates on September 24th for the link to your free organic soap! Super simple&#8230; Enjoy!</p>
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		<title>Win a Free Manicure Kit</title>
		<link>http://parentofteenagers.today.com/2009/09/11/78/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 13:37:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		
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TeenFreeway holds monthly contests for great free stuff that teenagers want.  This time it is for a free manicure kit!
Click on the image above to enter.  Five winners will be selected on November 4, 2009.
Someone has to win; it just might be you!
Want more great freebies for teens?   Check out the TeenFreeway FREEBIES PAGE [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center"><a href="http://www.teenfreeway.com/special_promos/manicure/index.htm" target="_blank"><img src="http://i252.photobucket.com/albums/hh28/asbender20/Picture16.png" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a></p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">TeenFreeway holds monthly contests for great free stuff that teenagers want.  This time it is for a free manicure kit!</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Click on the image above to enter.  Five winners will be selected on November 4, 2009.</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Someone has to win; it just might be you!</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Want more great freebies for teens?   Check out the TeenFreeway <a href="http://www.teenfreeway.com/newfreebies.htm" target="_blank">FREEBIES PAGE</a> .</p>
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		<title>Free Taylor Lautner Poster</title>
		<link>http://parentofteenagers.today.com/2009/09/04/free-taylor-lautner-poster/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 19:31:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		
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Register with TeenVogue  and get a free poster of Taylor Lautner (Jacob from the Twilight series).  Personally, Jacob is Frankie&#8217;s favorite!  I plan on telling her about this so she can get hers before they are all gone.  Thanks to Lindsay at Frugal &#38; Fabulous  for the heads up on this.
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<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Register with <a href="https://secure.teenvogue.com/user/registration" target="_blank">TeenVogue</a>  and get a free poster of Taylor Lautner (Jacob from the Twilight series).  Personally, Jacob is Frankie&#8217;s favorite!  I plan on telling her about this so she can get hers before they are all gone.  Thanks to Lindsay at <a href="http://www.frugalandfabulous.org/2009/09/fun-freebies-of-day.html" target="_blank">Frugal &amp; Fabulous</a>  for the heads up on this.</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">While you are there you can enter for a chance to win $50,000!  You must be 13 years old or older, so mom [dad], you can register for your child if it makes you more comfortable.</p>
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		<title>Free Body Lotion - September 4th</title>
		<link>http://parentofteenagers.today.com/2009/09/02/free-body-lotion-september-4th/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 14:03:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		
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Is your teen a member of TeenFreeway yet?  They could be getting some great freebies geared just for teens.  Here is how to score a free citrus mint body lotion:

 Log on to FaceBook on September 4th
In the upper right side check out your updates
Click on the update from TeenFreeway
Follow the instructions on how to [...]]]></description>
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<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Is your teen a member of TeenFreeway yet?  They could be getting some great freebies geared just for teens.  Here is how to score a free citrus mint body lotion:</p>
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<li> Log on to FaceBook on September 4th</li>
<li>In the upper right side check out your updates</li>
<li>Click on the update from TeenFreeway</li>
<li>Follow the instructions on how to get your free body lotion</li>
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<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Super simple, right?  Looking for more great freebies for your teen?  Check out <a href="http://www.teenfreeway.com/" target="_blank">TeenFreeway.com</a> or  stay tuned for more great offers.</p>
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		<title>Freebies for Teens</title>
		<link>http://parentofteenagers.today.com/2009/08/08/freebies-for-teens/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2009 13:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		
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I follow many blogs providing great information, advising of the best deals, and where to find the best freebies.  Too bad all of this is geared either for adults or babies and young children.  It is not their fault.  These are mommy bloggers of babies and young children.  I am sure as their children grow [...]]]></description>
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<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">I follow many blogs providing great information, advising of the best deals, and where to find the best freebies.  Too bad all of this is geared either for adults or babies and young children.  It is not their fault.  These are mommy bloggers of babies and young children.  I am sure as their children grow up what they share will evolve as well.</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">But what about those of us with teenagers?  We do not have time to wait; our children are teenagers now.  So, I have found a few places (and I mean a few, like two) where we can get freebies and information for teens.</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">First is <a href="http://www.teenfreeway.com/" target="_blank">TeenFreeway</a> .  This is a great site offering freebies and other information specifically geared towards teens.  Sure, most of this information is for the teen girl, but some information is universal.  They even offer an opportunity for your teen to make money by sharing information through FaceBook, MySpace, and their personal blog (things they are doing anyway).</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Next is a program that offers free products to try, share, and promote.  It is a word of mouth program.  What is great about this program is they offer great products for teens AND adults.  That is right, this one is for everyone!  Why not head on over to <a href="http://www.bzzagent.com/" target="_blank">BzzAgent</a>  today and sign up.  It is free and you might get something you have been wanting to try.  Frankie informed me on this one.  She received a box full of makeup remover and cleansers from Clean and Clear.  There were full size samples for her and her friends, along with great coupons.  Me?  I received the Off! Powerpad and Clip-on.  Full size with coupons to share!</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">So, there you have it.  Some great site for free things to share with your teen.  And who does not love getting presents in the mail, right?</p>
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		<title>Free Stuff From Seventeen Magazine</title>
		<link>http://parentofteenagers.today.com/2009/07/17/free-stuff-from-seventeen-magazine/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 20:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		
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Raising kids can be expensive.  Why not get some great &#8220;in&#8221; things for your teen without breaking the bank?  Seventeen magazine has a great section on their web site where you can do just that.  Check it out here.  They even have a widget you can download to alert you to the latest freebies.
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<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Raising kids can be expensive.  Why not get some great &#8220;in&#8221; things for your teen without breaking the bank?  Seventeen magazine has a great section on their web site where you can do just that.  Check it out <a href="http://www.seventeen.com/fun-stuff/freebies/" target="_parent">here</a>.  They even have a widget you can download to alert you to the latest freebies.</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal"><img src="http://i252.photobucket.com/albums/hh28/asbender20/f469272f8ad94efe.jpg" align="left" height="135" width="132" />Be sure to print out the home page of Seventeen.com and bring it with you [and your teen] to any Nordstrom fragrance counter by August 10 and get a <em><font color="#008000">deluxe sample of all five Harajuku Lovers fragrances</font></em>.  This freebie is available to the first 10,000 Seventeen readers.</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Then head on over to American Eagle between July 22 - August 4, buy any jeans and get a free <font color="#008000"><em>American Eagle tee</em></font>.</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">If you prefer to shop online, then surf on over to <a href="http://www.retailmenot.com" target="_blank">retailmenot.com</a>  and see if there is a coupon code available.  Then be sure to use a site such as ebates, bigcrumbs, or cashbaq and earn a little back on that purchase.  Shop through <a href="http://www.ebates.com/rf.do?referrerid=vAPy2YbV1tVRwEke%2FjBwZA%3D%3D" target="_blank">ebates</a>  or <a href="http://www.cashbaq.com/?refer=457870" target="_blank">cashbaq</a>  and earn 3% on your purchase (calculated before taxes and shipping).  Shop through <a href="http://www.bigcrumbs.com/crumbs/landing.do?r=asbender&amp;s=48977" target="_blank">bigcrumbs</a>  and get up to 4.5% back.</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal"><font size="2">Image of Harajuku Lovers fragrances courtesy of <a href="http://csecsebecse.blog.hu/" target="_blank">Csecsebecse</a>.</font></p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Flag Day</title>
		<link>http://parentofteenagers.today.com/2009/06/25/flag-day/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 05:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		
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Back in May I wrote about a paying gig Frankie was to perform.   Turns out it was a dedication of a historic site in our community, on Flag Day.  I must admit, pretty soon our entire community will be one great big historic site.  Not that I am complaining, but it is a bit [...]]]></description>
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<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">Back in May I wrote about a paying gig Frankie was to perform.   Turns out it was a dedication of a historic site in our community, on Flag Day.  I must admit, pretty soon our entire community will be one great big historic site.  Not that I am complaining, but it is a bit much when people never, and I mean NEVER, want to let go of the past.</p>
<p style="font-family: Georgia; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">The dedication was nice.  The weather was HOT!  Frankie did a good job, along with the other kids who performed.  Mostly I wanted to jumped into the lake that was within eye-shot.</p>
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		<title>Wordless Wednesday</title>
		<link>http://parentofteenagers.today.com/2009/06/24/wordless-wednesday/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 19:51:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		
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		<title>Music Pays, Literally</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 18:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		
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Frankie had her final band concert of her high school years last week.  It was cool that she and Lulu played together in symphonic band and for the all-district concert band last winter.  Both had solos in the first song and I could not be more proud of both of them.  Of course, they should [...]]]></description>
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 20px; font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Georgia">Frankie had her final band concert of her high school years last week.  It was cool that she and Lulu played together in symphonic band and for the all-district concert band last winter.  Both had solos in the first song and I could not be more proud of both of them.  Of course, they should be proud of themselves.  I learned this at a work-related seminar a few years back.  Parents tend to extend praise to their children causing the children to need this outward praise to feel good about their accomplishments.  By changing our words we can teach our children to feel fulfilled from within.   Instead of saying &#8220;I am proud of you&#8221;, why not say &#8220;You should be proud&#8221;.  I am not saying you should not express pride in your children, but teach them to find it themselves without external need.  Food for thought.</p>
<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 20px; font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Georgia">Yesterday Frankie&#8217;s band director called about a performance he would like her to attend.  It requires a few piccolo solos and is a Memorial Day-type of event.  It is not held on Memorial Day, but in June.  And, it pays $25.  Not a windfall, but not too shabby for doing something you love.  Frankie should be proud of herself!  <span class="Apple-style-span"><img src="http://parentofteenagers.today.com/wp-includes/js/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" /></span></p>
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